In Eve Hogan’s book Intellectual Foreplay: Questions for Lovers and Lovers To Be she poses the questions that you need to ask questions of a relationship partner about beliefs, money, home, children, past, future, and important things that deepen a relationship and help determine whether or not it will flourish. She’ll also address how all of this relates to online dating and shows how it can become a voyage of self-discovery, leading to enhanced self-esteem, improved communication skills and personal empowerment.