What holds a couple together? Why are we afraid of intimacy? How can we keep our hearts open to one another in the midst of hurt and resentment? These are some of the questions therapist team Don and Martha Rosenthal attempt to answer in their book Learning to Love: From Conflict to Lasting Harmony. Listen in as they offer workable strategies for listening to your partner with an open heart; asking for change; giving and receiving; dealing with anger; and releasing one’s own guilt, fear, and defensiveness.